Friend or soul sister?

You know how you look back on life and certain memories are more Technicolor than the others?

We thought life will happen once the boards are over. We thought we'll have more time than ever. We thought let's get rid of the work load, then we'll have time.

What we didn't realize was that it was happening even then. Life was happening even then. It still is. For always being there. For the million or so private jokes that we share, some of which have built up over the years, more which lay forgotten in some corner of our oh-so-occupied-with-everything minds. This is to her for finding me funny, when no one else did. For sharing the same sense of humour, tolerating all my mood swings. This is to her because no one else I know thinks I'm good the way i am than she do, for understanding I'm upset when I'm cold, for not leaving me when you most wanted to, for holding on when I most wanted to. This is to her for understanding that when I go quiet I sleep.We've had those huge, not-talking-for-months fights. But always, always, when it comes down to being there, everything else aside, we're there for each other.Don't remember the exact one year which cemented to grow to be an extremely strong friendship, that nothing would break.Since school got over, it's got harder to spend time together.But it never makes a difference. I could be with a hundred new people, do things she doesn't get at all, be a part of field that's alien to her, but when I'm back with her and we're being us again, its like coming home.

How do you explain friends like her? She's just that girl, who'll dance at my wedding,play with my babies, and tell them stories of the bad things their Mom did. 

 It was her B'day on 21st oct. :)

I made this card which later needed a big correction when i found out at 12, she is turning 21 not 20.OOpps..Replaced the 20 with 21st before giving! :D 

It's been seven years to our friendship. :) 

Wish someone had told me when i was eighTEEN

*Flashback*
Two and half years ago.
I Passed my high school.                                
But had no clue what to do with my life. 
I asked my family , they said do what you want to do. Thank you,what a suggestion!
I asked my friends , They said they will pursue whatever they'll be comfortable with. Hmph..
I asked my neighbor , They said they are done with their college life and still wander aimlessly. Awesome, chill raho ..aish karo! 

Even though I love creative field,I was sure that my parents won't find it worth enough to join.
They do consider it as a total shit!
And thus,i had no option other than going with flow.
Running for checking out various professional courses which a commercian can deal with and i managed to choose one.
At times I don't feel satisfied with what I am doing But still I guess i made a good choice.Let's see what future hold anyway.

But still there are certain things which i realize now and wish someone had told me while i was struggling to made a crucial decision of my life.

Here the list is Oh please don't give me that , OWTF !*one more list* look :P

• Invest sometime in yourself. - This certainly can change the entire personality Believe me If you know yourself , you can deal with anything.
• Accept and embrace change - Because change is inevitable.Be it bad o' good.It totally depends on your perception.
• Live a comfortable life, not a wasteful one.Do not spend to impress others.
• Do your best in what you do-No matter what your result is then.You will be having peace within your grain sized brain that at least you did your best.
• You may not get what you always want but its Okay to not to have somethings because there must be something better waiting for you which you may realize later.
• Don’t regret any of your decision.It just makes your present dead and ruins future. 
• Natural human fears of failure and embarrassment will sometimes stop you from trying new things but the only thing we fear is fear..

Chalo,enough of gyaan (pack up)  xP I wrote this because may be because when time seems tough i make a note of these points to remember..based on experiences :)

By the way its been 3 days and i don't know why i strongly feel  like having momo's and garlic bread.anyone wanna join? hehe




That's all for today,
Tadaz
LOve xD

Dream on

Ever since I was a kid, I have been a day dreamer. I always dreamt of things I wanted, things I wanted to do or things I want others to do for me. I called it ‘my list’. Even though people say I am a grown up now, I am no different. I still have my list written somewhere in my mind as I am bad at maintaining diary. The list doesn’t have a time line. Its just a list of things I hope to do in this life time.
Anyways, today I have decided to make my list public. Here is my Bucket list -

• Get a job that not only pays well but I also love.
• Travel to 4 other countries other than India.
• Live in another country for at least an year.
• Work or open a charity organization.
•  Make a snow man.
• Own my own personal library. 
• Get interviewed. 
• Visit as many places as possible for this list.
• Learn to swim and go for Scuba Diving in the Great Barrier Reef.
• Go to a live concert.(Euphoria or jal's will add bonus to wish)
• Make a difference in someone’s life.
• Donate my eyes. (of course after i die)
•  Learn to make cookies.
• Fly a kite all by myself . 
• Travel in a ship.
• Ride a hot air balloon. 
• Go trekking.
• Build a sandcastle
• Get a tattoo. 

That's all for today. ^_^

Have a great weekend.

You too can fly..

Take criticism, smash it into dust, add color, and use it to paint breathtaking images of unicorns frolicking through endless fields of greatness.
~ Matthew Gray Gubler ~

Talespin has always been my favorite cartoon. :)

Note to self.

"Every negative thing in life...has positive side" - feel it and follow it.